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Cougar Dating Site is now 10 Years Old!

Since 2010 Cougar Dating Site has been the ultimate and most trusted place to be for cougars and younger men (or toyboys) looking for casual dating. We have lots of older women across the UK looking for sexual dates with younger men. Join today for FREE and browse all our women profiles including saucy photos and videos – registration is so easy, you could be searching for cougars in your town in less than 30 seconds!

Want fun and sexy action tonight? Register now using the fields and Next button above!

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What is cougar dating

Cougar dating is the matchmaking and a relationship between a mature older woman (known as a Cougar) and a younger male (known as a Toyboy). The relationship can be romantic or sexual in nature.

A question often asked is how big an age gap does there need to be. Well there isn’t a set rule. Often a cougar will usually be at least 10 years older than her toyboy.

Becoming a member of Cougar Dating Site is a great way to meet like-minded consenting adults looking for a relationship or just fun and a casual fling.

Why a toyboy goes for a cougar

So why do younger men go for cougars. There are all sorts of answers to this question and every younger man is different of course, with different wants and needs.

Most men though see a cougar as a strong, independent women who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it. They are often sexually experienced and don’t play games. Speaking with many younger men all these traits are very attractive.

You only have to watch American Pie to see why Stiffler’s mum was considered the ultimate MILF and the fantasy of many younger men.

Cougars can often wonder why a younger man would go for them, rather than a younger girl closer to his age – but this often couldn’t be further from the truth.

Why cougars want a toyboy

So why do cougars go for younger men. Well in part a younger fitter body and knowing a younger man is attracted to them is indeed a pull – but a younger man offers a lot more. They offer energy, excitement and a zest for life. A man her own age may not give her the same exciting spontaneity a younger man offers.

It’s a powerful lure.

A smart, attentive and respectful younger man who enjoys adventure and travel, and a sexual naughty side, can be the ultimate desire for a cougar.

Cougar Dating Site is now 10 years old and still going very strong!

Launched in 2010 the site aimed to help cougars and toyboys meet and have fun without the judgement of others.

We want to thank all of our thousands of members over the past 10 years for a very exciting journey. We here at Cougar Dating Site HQ are looking forward to what the next 10 years brings to this exciting industry

Thanks again!

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is Cougar Dating Site about?

A: Cougar dating is best described as younger men meeting and dating older women. This site focuses on older women (cougars) and younger men (toyboys or cubs) who are looking for sexual fun and casual meets and or relationships all across the UK.

Q: How does it work?

A: Simple, first you register for free membership (see join form at the top of the page). This usually takes around 30 seconds to 1 minute. Once you are registered you are free to search all the cougar dating profiles including EVERY photo and video our cougars and toyboys have uploaded of themselves. Once you have found a cougar or toyboy you would like to meet up with simply upgrade your membership and you’ll be able to send private messages, start conversations or throw someone a cheeky wink to get their attention.

Q: How do I go about contacting and meeting someone for a date?

A: Once you have found a fellow cougar or toyboy member that catches your eye you can start messaging and contacting them. If they respond and attraction is mutual you can simply both arrange a time and place to meet up.

Q: Is it safe?

A: Cougar dating, and any online dating, is amazing, fun and interesting. It’s a great way to meet new people, have amazing sex and embark on an exciting adventure. That being said, like all dating with new people, it is always best and recommended to take precautions. Some examples of which are to always speak on the phone (or even better, Skype) before you arrange a meet. Plan the first meet in a public area and during the day, and always tell a family member or friend where you are going.

Q: Is it all about sexual meets?

A: Yes! Although it is a casual dating site in nature, there have been great stories of people building long term relationships too. With lots of members registered there are members who are simply after a casual relationship – where others are happy to also see how things go. The beauty is we have cougars and cubs (thousands of them) who will be looking for the same as you.

Q: OK I want a casual cougar date – how do I join?

A: Simply scroll to the top of this page, say whether you are male or female, then click the Next button and follow the onscreen instructions. Within just 1 minute you can search through all the cougar dating profiles including all photos and videos by our members!